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On the Third Day of Christmas
On the third day of Christmas, a Christmas memory gave to me, Mom's Three Ps. My mother used to say of discouraging times, "That took the...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Dec 16, 20192 min read


On the Second Day of Christmas
On the second day of Christmas, a Christmas memory gave to me, two one-dollar bills. My parents had many Christmas traditions. One of the...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Dec 15, 20192 min read


On the First Day of Christmas
There are twelve days left until Christmas. Twelve days left to enjoy the Christmas spirit. It has been a little more difficult for me...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Dec 14, 20191 min read


The View from the Dock
Do you have a mental dock? How's September looking from there? When I was a teenager, and I saw those magnifying makeup mirrors at...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Sep 1, 20192 min read


August Angst, Mixed Metaphors, and Finding Footing
Over the first weekend in August, we went camping in what was loosely themed our third annual family retreat - “loosely” because (1) a...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Aug 7, 20194 min read


Slowing Down to Move Forward
The last week has offered an endless stream of examples for me. Examples of moving forward. My daughter and her husband ran a 9-mile race...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Jul 22, 20192 min read


Good Bones
Tomorrow is Halfway Day. It’s fine. I’m fine. I’d like to ask 2019 what happened, but it’s only half there right now. Best to just leave...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Jun 30, 20193 min read


May 13 and Me
Oh, May 13, what a complicated relationship we have. On one hand, you are the day my sister called to tell me our mother had passed away....

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
May 13, 20192 min read


Mothers and Words
I’ve just spent the last three days at a writing conference I’ve never attended before. I was a newbie. A first-timer. Because I am an...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
May 12, 20192 min read


Arrivals and Departures
In the middle of the night last night, I sat in the Labor and Delivery Waiting Room with David, watching my phone for the notification of...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Apr 24, 20193 min read


Clydesdales, Window Walls, and National Parks: Finding Focus in Three Parts
Part One For those of you who have had occasion to approach me from my left, you know I don’t have any peripheral vision on that side,...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Apr 3, 20194 min read


Search Bars and Pitfalls
I do it a lot. I use a word I’ve used a gazillion times, and suddenly it sounds so weird, I find myself typing it into the Search Bar and...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Mar 10, 20192 min read


She Got It
Do you ever pick up the phone to call your mom because you knew she’d get it? I hope you have a mom who gets it. I have a mom who got it,...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Feb 25, 20192 min read


A Bit Day-Obsessed
Someone said to me this week, “You’re a bit day-obsessed, aren’t you?” “I am?” “Each chapter of your series was a day, and this book,”...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Feb 25, 20191 min read


Fill the Day With Love
Happy Day!! Happy Day!! I hope you all have a Happy Day!! Historically, I’ve filled these days with heart-shaped food and messages on...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Feb 25, 20191 min read


In the Background
See that cute boy smiling into the camera? That’s my grandson, Sawyer. He’s our oldest grandchild, and he celebrated his 6th birthday...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Feb 25, 20191 min read


Dodging the Camera
If earthbound, today would be my mother’s 92nd birthday, although, she would probably claim it’s her 39th birthday. She was notoriously...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Feb 3, 20191 min read


Touching Base
January is change in the air; crisp and cool and full of possibility, and we only have one week left! For me, January is the month for...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Jan 25, 20191 min read


Cursing, Cows, and the January Muck
My dad refused to be rushed. In most cases, he thought before he spoke. As a youngster, I sometimes took his silent consideration to mean...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Jan 20, 20193 min read


Safeguarding Memories
Yesterday I wrote about my dad-in-law on what would’ve been his 100th birthday. I mentioned his fight with Alzheimer’s, and the brutal...

JanaLee Cox Longhurst
Jan 20, 20192 min read
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